KinksterTom's blog

Tonight, one day after another great fight, I am sitting at the computer and reflecting all the matches I had during the last 5 years. There were sixty of them.

I'm reading over all the recommendations I gave, as well as the ones I've received. I have the feeling it tells me a lot about me as a fighter - today and in the past.

In general, I can say I am a sporty guy. I really love the endorphines connected to any sport, I like to push my limits in the gym, I like to wrestle and I like also other physical activities. HOWEVER, now I find out that wrestling is really NOT JUST ANOTHER SPORT for me, although for a long time I thought so.

I used to say that I can do wrestling without any erotic component in it and it brings me the same pleasure. What a surprise: when I go through all the recommendations and I try to remember all the 60 guys I've met, I see the reallity is a bit different, though. :)

I REALLY LOVE WRESTLING NICE GUYS, that are strong enough but not much stronger than me, I love to enjoy the body to body contact with really-in-shape guys, I even love when my opponent is a little bit kind of jobber and if there is an erotic component in our match. However, I already know that I don't enjoy a fight with complete jobbers, neither with strong heels and alphas, belly guys, daddies or guys who don't simply have the energy and spark in their eyes. I'm sorry but I don't.

Wow, how interesting for me to say this "loud" and to understand it. It doesn't mean at all, that all my wrestling is just about sex. It is definitely not. I have my life long partner, a great fighter gioroma80 that I have met through this superb website 4 years ago, so I am definitely not trying to find a hook-up among wrestlers.

What I'm trying to say is probably quite obvious for most of the guys here. For me, wrestling is a great way how to enjoy the physical beauty of male body and the male strenght. It is a way how to express myself, including some of my fetishes, how to produce a load of the happiness hormones and how to enjoy myself with great guys. Of course, if there is once in a while the "happy ending", why not. ;)

INTENTIONALLY I'M SAYING "ENJOYING MYSELF WITH GREAT GUYS". I have met so many great guys here, and there are many new friendships existing just because of this site.

So I would like to tell you, guys - giroma80, razorfish, ferrero69t, Vlasta, galmuscle, Vice, FighterGuyy, th trooper, scrappyone, leanaussiemuscle, gigromeo, Andrea Fighter, sicwre88, brown diamond, slpt - meetings with you were among the best 15 matches out of the 60 I've done. I am so happy I could meet you and I really enjoyed our match at a maximum. THANK YOU! :*

My conclusion is the following. I'm not going to pretend there is no erotic content in wrestling for me. Myself, I feel like a more or less fit guy in the beginning of his 30'. I see that if the goal is to really enjoy the wrestling match, my opponent needs to be a nice person and he needs to be at least a bit physically attractive for me.

I already have in my mind the next blog entry - how to say no to wrestlers you don't want to meet. ;)