A straight man can get aroused and dont want sex is fine. Its a natural thing for the body to react to when its rubbed against another object. Most people can relate to getting hard by doing other things. It does not matter if its a person or an object. A lot of the time, the straight guy is hot and you want to have sex with them, but you need to understand where they are coming from too Dean in Fort Lauderdale Florida.
Fun and safe even though I do like to keep the person underwater to test their boundaries and skill level but having safe fun time is best of all. Cum down to the bottom of my pool in Fort Lauderdale Florida. Dean
I am going to be in Kissimmee FL January 5 - 12, always looking for some wrestling action, and i am more like a bobber with my weight, but i love wrestling in the water, or hot tub or even a large shower lol
Kissimmee is no where near fort lauderdale, it wold be far away besides I am not going to be in the area from 4th to the 11th so the only day we wold have is the 11th. thanks. Dean
Definitely clear winner is a must! Read my blogs! I even love a good hard fight like I had with Scott Williams. As I get a little older don’t need to prove anything tho!
I agree with you all, as i get older, i find healing takes longer and the soreness and pain from wrestling last longer also. I love the fact that i can wrestle, and get aroused and not want sex, if that makes sense. I am married and my wife and i do not have sex as often as we used too, and i am not interested in men normally, but i love it when i can let myself loose when wrestling and the other guy is ok with it also, and the more struggling there is, the more aroused i can get also, and without having much sex, can really build up the excitement
I've always preferred fun erotic fighting to competitive. I prefer safe and sane wrestling to super competitive with painful holds. I still get aroused thinking about tangling with another guy that feels the same way. Also, it seems it takes longer for my aches and pains to heal now than when I was younger. So, safe and sane fun fighting is the way to go for me.
Well I think there's another appreciation as you mature, its both for me a bit more into the fun and less bothered by intense competition .A good question though.
Asking for your thoughts: I’m about as competitive as anyone in sports but I find as I’m a little older I just want to have fun. Wrestling - and the erotic angle to it - is a real turn on for me whether I win or lose. In fact, it’s more fun for me if there’s some give and take. If a guy really trash talks me during the match I find I want to win more, but even then I’m okay with losing if he’s the superior wrestler and we’ve had a lot of fun. Just getting into the ring or on a mat with a guy and we’re only in our Speedos gets me going. Does everyone else have this more laid back attitude? Do you find it different than maybe 20 years ago? When you match up with a young stud who seems all hell bent on winning does it take some of the fun away for you?
FlDean2012 (119 )
4/14/2021 4:12 PMA straight man can get aroused and dont want sex is fine. Its a natural thing for the body to react to when its rubbed against another object. Most people can relate to getting hard by doing other things. It does not matter if its a person or an object. A lot of the time, the straight guy is hot and you want to have sex with them, but you need to understand where they are coming from too Dean in Fort Lauderdale Florida.
FlDean2012 (119 )
11/24/2019 5:18 AMFun and safe even though I do like to keep the person underwater to test their boundaries and skill level but having safe fun time is best of all. Cum down to the bottom of my pool in Fort Lauderdale Florida. Dean
NoCalWrestlebob (19)
11/24/2019 5:24 AM(In reply to this)
I am going to be in Kissimmee FL January 5 - 12, always looking for some wrestling action, and i am more like a bobber with my weight, but i love wrestling in the water, or hot tub or even a large shower lol
thunder64boxer (8)
4/15/2021 12:52 PM(In reply to this)
Check your mail for your Orlando opponent.
FlDean2012 (119 )
11/24/2019 5:27 AM(In reply to this)
Kissimmee is no where near fort lauderdale, it wold be far away besides I am not going to be in the area from 4th to the 11th so the only day we wold have is the 11th. thanks. Dean
Dennis (1)
11/23/2019 5:13 PMPrefer competitive even if going easy. Still has to be a clear winner.
BJJWrestlerLasVegas (14)
4/12/2021 2:19 PM(In reply to this)
I do not see why we need a clear winner except in a tournament. We roll at bjj class all the time. There are no egos and no one keeps score.
briansp (56 )
11/23/2019 7:43 PM(In reply to this)
Definitely clear winner is a must! Read my blogs! I even love a good hard fight like I had with Scott Williams. As I get a little older don’t need to prove anything tho!
NoCalWrestlebob (19)
11/23/2019 5:31 AMI agree with you all, as i get older, i find healing takes longer and the soreness and pain from wrestling last longer also. I love the fact that i can wrestle, and get aroused and not want sex, if that makes sense. I am married and my wife and i do not have sex as often as we used too, and i am not interested in men normally, but i love it when i can let myself loose when wrestling and the other guy is ok with it also, and the more struggling there is, the more aroused i can get also, and without having much sex, can really build up the excitement
j50yomuscle (2)
4/14/2021 3:56 PM(In reply to this)
I find this to be true for me as well.
Tomo67 (1)
4/13/2021 2:28 PM(In reply to this)
I know exactly what you mean. Although I have had gay opponents who struggle with the concept that I can get aroused by wrestling but don’t want sex !
scottimike (26 )
11/25/2019 9:58 PM(In reply to this)
Interesting and understandable .
joeran (3)
11/22/2019 6:41 PMI've always preferred fun erotic fighting to competitive. I prefer safe and sane wrestling to super competitive with painful holds. I still get aroused thinking about tangling with another guy that feels the same way. Also, it seems it takes longer for my aches and pains to heal now than when I was younger. So, safe and sane fun fighting is the way to go for me.
Chris55 (2 )
11/22/2019 10:40 AMInteresting question, for me it has to be safe, fun and friendly.....
scottimike (26 )
11/22/2019 8:21 AMWell I think there's another appreciation as you mature, its both for me a bit more into the fun and less bothered by intense competition .A good question though.
briansp (56 )
11/21/2019 10:08 AMAsking for your thoughts: I’m about as competitive as anyone in sports but I find as I’m a little older I just want to have fun. Wrestling - and the erotic angle to it - is a real turn on for me whether I win or lose. In fact, it’s more fun for me if there’s some give and take. If a guy really trash talks me during the match I find I want to win more, but even then I’m okay with losing if he’s the superior wrestler and we’ve had a lot of fun. Just getting into the ring or on a mat with a guy and we’re only in our Speedos gets me going. Does everyone else have this more laid back attitude? Do you find it different than maybe 20 years ago? When you match up with a young stud who seems all hell bent on winning does it take some of the fun away for you?