Mixed Wrestling (Men vs. Woman)

The majority of women on this site are men pretending to be women. I’ll believe they are women if they have any past opponents, which is hardly any of them

I agree! Learned the other day of one I was chatting with is not who she said she or he is.

A) Most women aren't into it.

B) Many of those who would be don't realize it because circumstances have never led them to discover it.

C) Those who are don't need to go looking, word of mouth and usually a very eager partner take care of providing them with all the opportunities they'd care to have.

D) In life and the world in general, women have to deal with a ridiculous amount of creepy and crappy behavior from guys. Not exact the kind of thing that would encourage participation on a site like this.

I have a woman that I have been chatting with from Tennessee, tells me she can’t find anyone to wrestle with. Male or female?

I know who you mean.

Don't waste your time.

have them contact [email protected] in bartlett tn phone 9015526989 if calling mention meetfighters i will love to go against women i live in tennessee near memphis tn

Have been told from another member here is that she is a poser?!

It all depends on where she's looking as some parts are so sparse and then, she may need to join a fight gym to get some action.

So bottom line is women just aren’t into this, universally, worldwide. Theres creeps and annoying messages and dangerous men on dating sites too, but women are all over every dating site. Why? Because women are into sex and relationships. Someone who has interest in this would at the very least have a profile. They don’t have to put their picture, they don’t have to look at a single message, but they would at least be on here to browse out of curiosity. They aren’t curious, and don’t even do as little as make a profile, they just aren’t into wrestling as a fetish. Even if its its just a semi-competitive playfight with alot of holding back with hot friendly guy with six pac abs, still no, not interested. And thats ok, we all like what we like. Its just a testosterone thing I guess, only men have enough testosterone for this interest i guess. It sucks, but it is what it is. Just gotta accept it and move on. Maybe try some session wrestling, idk.☹️

I always say greetings from where I'm from if I don't get a reply then no problem, don't hassle anyone male or female fair play to a woman who is comfortable enough to say hello ✌️✌️✌️

I can add my two cents here i suppose.

First off, alot of people here said it already, but it is true that of the few female members on this site, its a very rare select few who are genuine. Of those, even fewer are looking to actually wrestle a man. I have known three members here that fit both of those criteria. One is a past opppnent of mine, one was a member a few years ago who has left, and one is my own wife.

Of those three, only one of them remain here, and that is my past opponent, who remains a great friend of mine.

I can use my wife's experience to amswer the question of what the experience is like for women. And yes, in general, guys act REALLY creepy here when messaging a female member.

Imagine first, how chaotic and creepy guys can be toward women in the dating world...then add the fact that this site is specifically catered to the fact that people are looking to, in some capacity, inflict violence on each other. It makes for a nasty combination. In the end, my wife was so disgusted and disappointed in the way people talked to her that she shut down her profile and decided to use my profile to look at possible matches, and prefers to let me help set them up for safety reasons.

Of course, i don't mean to say every guy here is like that towards a female member, but its a frighteningly large majority of them that send a message.

Another factor is of course that this is by majority, a gay site. Of the members who are respectful of women, there arent many who are interested in wrestling with women. I have had several opponents who she has watched me roll with that have respectfully declined when she wanted to have a turn. It never hurt her feelings or anything, but it IS a reality.

So, with all of that in mind, women who actually like to wrestle generally move toward FetLife. That site has a plethora of potential male AND female opponents, and the community is a bit more diverse for this kink in general. (I don't say that to bash MF at all. Just that women in particular have far better luck there.)

Anyway, theres my input that no one asked for 😂

Very well written

Very Well written.
My gf and I can confirm the experiences you and your wife Made Here and in General in the Internet.
Cheers from Germany

Hear ,Hear .I completely concur..Well Said 👍

Boxerboy91, funny you mentioned Fetlife. Most of comments I got was to try this site. Thought I might have a contact. Female that even lived close by. Told her we could meet for a drink in a public place to get to know each other. Then she ghosted me. I guess I’ll stick to session wrestlers.

Session wrestles are good but that coin adds up fast. I've had 2 sessions with the same young lady, and The total cost of both sessions could have paid for a trip to see a few members from here. Also, some session fighters are more fantasy than competition, so it's always good to ensure you're getting what you pay for.

Id want to wrestle a real woman maybe two

Damn shame there aren't more!

sounds right

I joined this group (temporarily) to help answer this question.

First off you guys must realize there are approximately 20,670 members on this site and only 80 are listed as female. That means only about 0.387% (a little over one third of one percent) of the members are even claiming to be female in the first place.

Of that 80 or so, a sad fact is a large majority (I'd estimate 70-90%) on this site and others like it are just men pretending to be women because they get off on it in one way or another. A dead giveaway is single pic or very few pictures that look like they were plucked off a social media page (posed pics that don't look like they are meant to be athletic in any way) with little to no specific details about any past training or experience, and a quickly disappearing or never updated profile. I think most are guys pretending to be women who are looking for actual women to cyber with and vanish when they don't find any or their ruse is called out.

Out of the very small number who are real, most are members of couples who are looking for other couples or women, because she already has a partner who is excited by it OR they are session wrestlers who charge money for it, even though to the best of my knowledge that is supposedly against the terms of service on this site.

Straight or bisexual women who are looking for single men to wrestle for free are virtually non-existent, and even if one or two of these unicorns do exist their inbox is probably overflowing with other guys trying to get their time and attention, most of whom wouldn't be near or appeal to them anyway.

You need to understand their mentality is much different. If they are interested in legitimate wrestling matches (or any other combat sport) they are likely looking for other women they would be physically well matched against. If their interest is sexual in nature they are usually already either with a guy who got them into it and/or are still primarily looking for other women.

There are definitely not loads of women joining sites like this to find men to wrestle just to provide those men with their fantasy. The vast majority of members are gay or bisexual men looking for other men, with a tiny sprinkling of couples thrown in... but straight guys looking for women to provide their fantasy for free are pretty much just dreaming... and have little to no chance of finding that on one of these sites.

Their best option either start a regular relationship with a woman and try to get her into it, join some kind of BJJ gym that has female members and pray she takes an interest in you, or get ready to pay for it.

Best case you have hundreds or thousands of guys on the site interested in women, and maybe 20-30 actual women who are either already taken (in many cases the guy will actually even run or have access to her profile) or who charge hundreds an hour for it. Basically the supply is infinitesimal compared to the demand, and even in the case of a rare unicorn there would be a ton of competition for it. I'm sure people wish the situation was different, but I think it's better to know and accept the reality, than waste a ton of time and effort on the longest of long-shots. Hope this is of help.

Nailed it. I don't bother with finding women here.

I actually find them in the day to day life. I introduced wrestling to one lady I just met online days ago.we are going to meet first then she will want to try it. She's very interested and yes she's definitely a female 😊

I agree, you are spot on!

holy!!! this is BANG ON accurate

Majority of the women on here are men pretending to be women. Also Women don’t have the same competitive spirit

Agree with your first point, but not with your second…

My guess would be that guys on here are probably just flat out creeping them out. I think that I am respectful towards the ladies here, and I’m not even wanting to have sex with anyone here. It’s just not a safe thing for women to meet strange men from online to wrestle.

After speaking to one woman said guy son here dont kno whow to respect ladies, there more then just sex objects so maybe if guys wer nices they'd stay around longer

After several conversations and observations, on average ladies only stay on this site for 2-4 weeks and then leave, and I was just wondering why.

Is it not what they expected or they can’t find what they’re looking for ?
They can’t find any matches ?
Or
Do they get abusive, sexual, mysoginistic messages which puts them off ?

While I have no imperial evidence, I suspect you are spot on.