I want to tag onto the last thing I said here as well. I think there is a misconception that for anyone on the sado-masochistic spectrum that pain is always enjoyed, that the act is sexually gratifying, makes one horny, etc, and that's not the case. Most of the time the bottom (the masochistic position) enjoys the submission, gets high from endorphins, or can find pain satisfying in some other way. There is also a misconception that just because you are bottoming you are submissive, also not the case. If I had a big muscly submissive I may order him to crush the hell out of me as an act of service. For him the act would be pleasing because it pleases me. Usually when I am topping someone in a scene, causing them pain, my enjoyment comes from their reaction to it. I don't like scenes where it isn't clear that the other is having fun. I prefer my partners to be horny, laughing, challenged, etc but if there isn't an indicator that they are having fun I can't get into the scene. That's one of the reasons Rocker (past opponent) was one of my favorites, even when he was begging me he was horny and having a great time and I just love that energy.
Well, that's a big conversation piece there (btw, you missed sadist, sadomasochist is someone who likes hurting and being hurt) but let me say this: the purpose of a bearhug is to cause pain/panic, knock someone out etc. That's all some form of sadism and masochism. Am I a sadomasochist? Well, for just being in this discussion and preferring real implies that I have to be. That being said I am in the leather community, this is a fetish for me, spandex is a fetish for me, and the list of what turns me on is quite long. Yes, I am a pervert and proud of it.
My dream bout: Tight speedos, bare chest. Clinch, loong bearhug battle, constricting for hours, then taking it to the floor, wrapped , rolling around till winner eventually mounts loser wraps arms and legs around him and slowly finishes him in a loooooooooong squeezing session, feeling him struggling under till loser stops moving and is finally crushed under.
looking for men in PA with big arms and willing to squeeze me in long bearhug and willing to slowly crush my ribs and likes to go nakede!
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Damn...I somehow missed this Chris in Seattle, apologies man. Not sure when my next trip up north will be bud...but you can bet you’re on the agenda when it gets scheduled 😉
Love to be punished in long held bearhugs. looking for strong, fit hugger. looking to go all the way to knockout. Crush me all you like.
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Any bearhuggers or bearhug fans in Texas? Am happy to host or travel.
I have 10'x10'x2' mats, plenty of space, and will happily host visitors when not traveling for work. Bearhug matches - competitive or just trading hugs - slow paced, sweaty, or oiled.
You can use my mats too, if you need a place to have your own matches - no strings attached.
I am between Dallas and Austin on I-35: 20 min. from Ft. Hood, 45 min. from Austin, 2 hr. from Dallas, 2.5 hr. from San Antonio.
5'10 150lbs, average/slim build, cute, masculine, 26yo in North Bay, Ontario, Canada. Looking for bigger, strong, young guys to crush me with a bearhug. No mercy. I'm into a lot and very openminded, but what I'm mainly looking for is to be overpowered, bearhugged (frontal or rear), and squeezed as hard as possible until I eventually pass out (it can be prolonged into a long torturous squeeze if the guy has enough stamina). I don't care how strong the guy crushing me is, or if i get hurt doing this, i just like being crushed as hard and extreme as possible until I'm KOed.. No submissions. No mercy. Let's see what you got, big boys. I wanna feel what kind of power you have. Any gear is cool. I can host here or can go splits on a motel. I cannot travel far as I don't have a car. Don't let my small packaging fool you. I'm extremely tough and can take whatever you can dish out. I don't care for your size or strength. I'm up for almost anything, wrestling, grappling, ect...I'm very open-minded, so long as I get my bearhug crushing. Bring it on. I'm into real only. I am NOT looking for cyber, phone or cam. Pics in profile. For those not familiar with Canadian geography, North Bay is a 4 hour drive north of Toronto, 4 hour drive west of Ottawa.
This is where you can find a bearhugging partner... Someone to squeeze with... varying degrees of intensity... What kind of squeeze are you looking for? Tell us here and find someone to match and have a bearhug match with.
LisbonWrestler (39)
9/06/2019 7:42 PMReady for bearhug combat!! Please log in to view gallery photos.
Shorty (1)
9/05/2019 10:27 PMBearhug me so tight that my legs wrap around ur waist an my arms are over the shoulder
BlackFighter27 (5)
9/05/2019 1:31 AMHey I'm looking for someone to bearhug. Any takers?
BlackFighter27 (5)
9/05/2019 2:56 AM(In reply to this)
Looking to go on a trip to a different state this week. Not sure what to see yet. Though would love to meet with a fellow bearhugger
ChrisWrestling (43 )
9/05/2019 1:38 AM(In reply to this)
Yes......?
BlackFighter27 (5)
9/05/2019 1:43 AM(In reply to this)
Hi. I read your profile, you got game.
ChrisWrestling (43 )
9/05/2019 11:24 PM(In reply to this)
I'm also a pervert!
BlackFighter27 (5)
9/06/2019 2:38 AM(In reply to this)
Define pervert? U a masochist or a sato-masochist?
ChrisWrestling (43 )
9/06/2019 3:22 AM(In reply to this)
I want to tag onto the last thing I said here as well. I think there is a misconception that for anyone on the sado-masochistic spectrum that pain is always enjoyed, that the act is sexually gratifying, makes one horny, etc, and that's not the case. Most of the time the bottom (the masochistic position) enjoys the submission, gets high from endorphins, or can find pain satisfying in some other way. There is also a misconception that just because you are bottoming you are submissive, also not the case. If I had a big muscly submissive I may order him to crush the hell out of me as an act of service. For him the act would be pleasing because it pleases me. Usually when I am topping someone in a scene, causing them pain, my enjoyment comes from their reaction to it. I don't like scenes where it isn't clear that the other is having fun. I prefer my partners to be horny, laughing, challenged, etc but if there isn't an indicator that they are having fun I can't get into the scene. That's one of the reasons Rocker (past opponent) was one of my favorites, even when he was begging me he was horny and having a great time and I just love that energy.
gripperUK (2)
7/08/2020 6:25 PM(In reply to this)
well written and so true for so many of us
ChrisWrestling (43 )
9/06/2019 3:13 AM(In reply to this)
Well, that's a big conversation piece there (btw, you missed sadist, sadomasochist is someone who likes hurting and being hurt) but let me say this: the purpose of a bearhug is to cause pain/panic, knock someone out etc. That's all some form of sadism and masochism. Am I a sadomasochist? Well, for just being in this discussion and preferring real implies that I have to be. That being said I am in the leather community, this is a fetish for me, spandex is a fetish for me, and the list of what turns me on is quite long. Yes, I am a pervert and proud of it.
LisbonWrestler (39)
8/13/2019 9:12 AMMy dream bout: Tight speedos, bare chest. Clinch, loong bearhug battle, constricting for hours, then taking it to the floor, wrapped , rolling around till winner eventually mounts loser wraps arms and legs around him and slowly finishes him in a loooooooooong squeezing session, feeling him struggling under till loser stops moving and is finally crushed under.
chispeedo (2)
8/29/2019 4:30 PM(In reply to this)
Great description. Love to experience that hot squeeze of yours! Please log in to view gallery photos.
wrstlarturo (82)
8/15/2019 11:40 AM(In reply to this)
Mmmhhhh i’m Your man for that duel LisbonWrestler
handto 2000 (11)
8/13/2019 5:00 PM(In reply to this)
Yeah! Lisbon's dream is mine.
JobberGeek (0)
7/12/2019 1:42 AMI'd love to meet some big bearhuggers in the vicinity of San Francisco or who plan on traveling here.
locoflex (1)
11/08/2017 9:43 PMOK, very nice topic, I make some videos of pure fantasy fights with a lot of animated bearhugs... looking for watchers of them...
https://www.youtube.com/c/locoflex
unclejohnny79 (0)
7/19/2017 12:54 AMHarrisburg, PA....senior chub is looking for young bodybuilders who can command submissions!
unclejohnny79 (0)
4/01/2019 8:45 PM(In reply to this)
I'm in Harrisburg, PA now.
crushmyribs (0)
3/11/2012 6:12 PMlooking for men in PA with big arms and willing to squeeze me in long bearhug and willing to slowly crush my ribs and likes to go nakede! Please log in to view gallery photos.
Chicagobearsbear (4)
9/04/2019 4:43 PM(In reply to this)
Where in PA?
travilicious (62)
7/09/2011 9:30 AMLooking for someone to put me in multiple agonizing bearhugs until I am limp in your arms. Anyone?
Swenrique (159 )
4/02/2019 5:56 AM(In reply to this)
You know I’d be MORE than happy to put the squeeze on ya😈
ChrisWrestling (43 )
4/03/2019 7:17 AM(In reply to this)
You know, swen, I like the squeezes too. When are you visiting seattle again?
Swenrique (159 )
9/03/2019 10:30 PM(In reply to this)
Damn...I somehow missed this Chris in Seattle, apologies man. Not sure when my next trip up north will be bud...but you can bet you’re on the agenda when it gets scheduled 😉
unclejohnny79 (0)
4/03/2019 12:42 AM(In reply to this)
HOW ABOUT ME?
travilicious (62)
4/02/2019 6:45 AM(In reply to this)
Haha - look at the date - I posted that almost eight years ago. Still looking for it! haha!
Will the wrestler (2 )
9/03/2019 8:41 PM(In reply to this)
Hey there Travel, I'd enjoy a holding you in my bearhug too.
Swenrique (159 )
4/04/2019 7:04 AM(In reply to this)
Hahahahaha
And yet...still TOTALLY applicable 👅😈
john el (14)
7/12/2019 5:49 AM(In reply to this)
Funny when these "looking for..." topics get necro'ed.
Swen lets hug. With Travil in the middle.. :p
leanaussiemuscle (31)
8/28/2019 5:43 AM(In reply to this)
Me too 😜💪🏽😈
twigster (0)
8/04/2019 2:25 AM(In reply to this)
i'd like to be in the middle as well! :)
mesajobber (1)
6/03/2011 11:35 PMLove to be punished in long held bearhugs. looking for strong, fit hugger. looking to go all the way to knockout. Crush me all you like. Please log in to view gallery photos.
fmrhugger (17)
5/16/2011 12:10 AMIn Philly area, looking to give and receive.
Total commitment, no mercy, goal is knockout or broken ribs
USA Jeff (33)
5/14/2011 11:39 PMAny bearhuggers or bearhug fans in Texas? Am happy to host or travel.
I have 10'x10'x2' mats, plenty of space, and will happily host visitors when not traveling for work. Bearhug matches - competitive or just trading hugs - slow paced, sweaty, or oiled.
You can use my mats too, if you need a place to have your own matches - no strings attached.
I am between Dallas and Austin on I-35: 20 min. from Ft. Hood, 45 min. from Austin, 2 hr. from Dallas, 2.5 hr. from San Antonio.
Thanks!
unclejohnny (0)
5/13/2011 12:31 AMSenior chub here seeks overwhelming bearhugs from musclebound youth in Los Angeles area. If you think you are capable of making me beg, let's talk!
Brazilianfighter (4)
4/08/2011 1:38 AMHey guys. Im looking for another slim guy like me in London for a bearhug competition.. loser humiliated. Let me know!
squeezetoy84 (1)
3/20/2011 8:30 AM5'10 150lbs, average/slim build, cute, masculine, 26yo in North Bay, Ontario, Canada. Looking for bigger, strong, young guys to crush me with a bearhug. No mercy. I'm into a lot and very openminded, but what I'm mainly looking for is to be overpowered, bearhugged (frontal or rear), and squeezed as hard as possible until I eventually pass out (it can be prolonged into a long torturous squeeze if the guy has enough stamina). I don't care how strong the guy crushing me is, or if i get hurt doing this, i just like being crushed as hard and extreme as possible until I'm KOed.. No submissions. No mercy. Let's see what you got, big boys. I wanna feel what kind of power you have. Any gear is cool. I can host here or can go splits on a motel. I cannot travel far as I don't have a car. Don't let my small packaging fool you. I'm extremely tough and can take whatever you can dish out. I don't care for your size or strength. I'm up for almost anything, wrestling, grappling, ect...I'm very open-minded, so long as I get my bearhug crushing. Bring it on. I'm into real only. I am NOT looking for cyber, phone or cam. Pics in profile. For those not familiar with Canadian geography, North Bay is a 4 hour drive north of Toronto, 4 hour drive west of Ottawa.
Contact me if interested.
squeezetoy84 (1)
3/20/2011 8:27 AMThis is where you can find a bearhugging partner... Someone to squeeze with... varying degrees of intensity... What kind of squeeze are you looking for? Tell us here and find someone to match and have a bearhug match with.