I think the reason why half of us are here is because we've romanticised and fetishised helplessness, as a coping mechanism from the trauma of it. Because it is utterly devastating, that feeling, when you realise your bully is going to do what he wants with you over and over, and there's nothing you can do about it.
When you're in a hold or a pin, and you try your absolute heart out to get free and just can't, and you're being dominanted and humiliated, so many heartbreaking emotions and thoughts run through you when it happens. The realisation that you're not going to be a hero, that you're not strong enough physically, and that sometimes good guys don't win. Then there's the struggling with the physical pain of whatever your bully does to you physically, whether that's a punch or being crushed under them, or being stretched or pulled back and forth. And the taunting and gloating is the worst of all, because you're so helpless you have to agree with their trashtalking. It's such a mindfuck, that moment where you're basically his plaything until he gets bored of you.
Whether you cry out loud or not, you'll be crying inside, knowing you've lost not only the match, but in some way your manhood and masculinity too. And even after its over, you'll be reminded of the helpless and humiliating situation you were in, over and over, for months and years after. Over time, you come to enjoy the 'loser feeling', and feel aroused from being taunted and humiliated (and guilty as well, for feeling that way).
I've lost pretty much every fight or wrestle I've been involved in. Thankfully most of them have been playfights or just short displays of dominance, but I'd say maybe 20 of them (mostly in my teens) have been incredibly humiliating, and it takes a lot of recovery and coping.
You are completely right. From my little child life, i always have been looking the looser guy in wrestling matches. And when i started wrestling (adult) my best moments where the moment you know the match is lost. Your opponent is applying a hold you won't be able to escape. And you know you will tap. You are the one who decide to loose your own match. You think about it some seconds, some long seconds then you must be enough proud to tap and shout "I submit !"
This is for me one of the best feeling. Why .. i don't know, must go for a psy to understand.
What's it like to be helpless in a match? To be overpowered to the extent that you can't defend yourself? To be beaten to the point to where you can't resist whatever comes your way? To beg for relief to no avail? I've yet to have my first match and I wonder what it's going to be like. I've had belly punching and spanking sessions (I don't like spanking!), but my punisher stopped when I asked. But what if it goes on? What if there's more than one punisher and they all have their way with you? What's it like? I hope sometime in the near future I can have that first match and find out for myself.
Ticklish (0)
5/04/2023 3:57 AMI think the reason why half of us are here is because we've romanticised and fetishised helplessness, as a coping mechanism from the trauma of it. Because it is utterly devastating, that feeling, when you realise your bully is going to do what he wants with you over and over, and there's nothing you can do about it.
When you're in a hold or a pin, and you try your absolute heart out to get free and just can't, and you're being dominanted and humiliated, so many heartbreaking emotions and thoughts run through you when it happens. The realisation that you're not going to be a hero, that you're not strong enough physically, and that sometimes good guys don't win. Then there's the struggling with the physical pain of whatever your bully does to you physically, whether that's a punch or being crushed under them, or being stretched or pulled back and forth. And the taunting and gloating is the worst of all, because you're so helpless you have to agree with their trashtalking. It's such a mindfuck, that moment where you're basically his plaything until he gets bored of you.
Whether you cry out loud or not, you'll be crying inside, knowing you've lost not only the match, but in some way your manhood and masculinity too. And even after its over, you'll be reminded of the helpless and humiliating situation you were in, over and over, for months and years after. Over time, you come to enjoy the 'loser feeling', and feel aroused from being taunted and humiliated (and guilty as well, for feeling that way).
I've lost pretty much every fight or wrestle I've been involved in. Thankfully most of them have been playfights or just short displays of dominance, but I'd say maybe 20 of them (mostly in my teens) have been incredibly humiliating, and it takes a lot of recovery and coping.
ladron fr (52)
5/14/2023 6:02 PM(In reply to this)
You are completely right. From my little child life, i always have been looking the looser guy in wrestling matches. And when i started wrestling (adult) my best moments where the moment you know the match is lost. Your opponent is applying a hold you won't be able to escape. And you know you will tap. You are the one who decide to loose your own match. You think about it some seconds, some long seconds then you must be enough proud to tap and shout "I submit !"
This is for me one of the best feeling. Why .. i don't know, must go for a psy to understand.
BobsFolly (0)
10/30/2022 8:49 PMWhat's it like to be helpless in a match? To be overpowered to the extent that you can't defend yourself? To be beaten to the point to where you can't resist whatever comes your way? To beg for relief to no avail? I've yet to have my first match and I wonder what it's going to be like. I've had belly punching and spanking sessions (I don't like spanking!), but my punisher stopped when I asked. But what if it goes on? What if there's more than one punisher and they all have their way with you? What's it like? I hope sometime in the near future I can have that first match and find out for myself.